Help - I'm 35 But I Sound Like A 12-Year-Old!

Have you ever considered the sound of yourthem on one of these trips. I lasted 3 months in that
speaking voice and what it says about you? Haveparticular vocation: my boss, Harry, however, was a
you given any thought to the fact that yourdifferent story. A former priest who had taught
speaking voice could be holding you back from landingEnglish at a Catholic seminary, Harry had a voice that
a particular job or getting that promotion?was captivating - deep, rich, warm - his voice made
Take this scenario for example. There are twoyou listen. Harry sold tours right and left. I sold
candidates for a job. Both have an excellentnothing.
education; both have the same work experience.After that demoralizing job, I went to graduate
One of the candidates has a dynamic speaking voice,school to pursue music composition with the goal of
exuding confidence and personality. Candidate #2, onwriting Broadway musicals. During my studies,
the other hand, has a whiny nasal voice or possiblyhowever, one of my professors pointed out my 'real'
he/she is soft-spoken, thus hard to hear, or maybevoice. Whereas my habitual voice sounded young,
the person sounds like a 12-year-old. Who gets thethin, and high-pitched, the professor showed me that
job?my 'real' voice was lower, richer, warmer, resonant.
Now let's look at the picture differently. Again, thereAfter graduate school, I moved to New York City
are two candidates for a job. Candidate #1 has a(still planning on meeting Stephen Sondheim!) but I
very good education; however, candidate #2 wentneeded a job and I thought music publishing would be
to a better school. Candidate #1 does not have asa logical step since I had studied composition. What I
much experience as candidate #2. Candidate #1 hasdidn't realize during those early years in New York
that great speaking voice and confident delivery;was that my speaking voice was my greatest asset.
candidate #2 has neither. Who gets the job?Not only did I sound more mature than I was, but it
Unless you're looking for an employee who will havewas getting me the jobs I wanted.
no communication with the outside world, chancesThere are many beautiful, dynamic speaking voices
are good that you will select candidate #1.and you may possess one of them. Until you learn to
Before attending graduate school, I worked for 'Yourplace your sound properly, however, you will never
Man Tours' in the Philadelphia area. They specialized inknow just how fantastic your voice may be.
prearranged tours to Hawaii, Mexico, and California.Is the sound of your speaking voice an asset or is it
After seeing the advertising for these vacations,a liability?
people would call in; and, it was my job to try to sell